I absolutely adore The Notebook. Rachel McAdams and Ryan Gosling play their roles with such conviction. I could genuinely fall in love with the love their characters share.

Papa's Got A Brand New Excuse

"A little back story before you watch this clip:

Will Smith co-wrote this episode, and James Avery (Uncle Phil) said "this scene was the hardest thing I've ever had to shoot in my life. Every emotion, every word, that was Will". Will was actually suposed to play it off and then walk away, and there was originally an alternate scene that was suposed to happen, but he actually completely cute out what was suposed to be said, and did all of his own dialogue. The hug at the end of this scene is completely genuine, and this was a stepping stone in Will's career where he started to take on the "do what feels, sounds, and looks right" approach to his acting"

Oliver & Company

Neil Gaiman once said...

“I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. They don’t teach you anything worth knowing.”

Gaiman is right, because these lessons are ones that cannot be taught from within the four restricting walls of a classroom. These are life lessons that must be lived and breathed, and experienced by all of us. Some people might learn these lessons quickly - though this may be considered both a blessing and a curse, while others might spend a lifetime seeking the answers to life's great unanswerable questions and never find what they were looking for. Life is different for each and every one of us, and it is for that reason that we are referred to as individuals. Though this may be the case, we must always try our best to remember that while noone will never share exactly the same experience as you, you are never going to find yourself in a situation that will leave you isolated from the world. Someone cares, sympathises and empathises with you, and you must seek that silver lining that emerges with every cloud.

You are not alone.

I do not claim to be the best at rectifying any situation, but I'm always going to be here.

I will listen, and never judge. I will offer advice, although you might not take it. I will support you in your decisions - as long as they are decisions based upon rational thoughts.

I will be that vice, that distraction that you might sometimes need to get through the day.

You are not alone.

The story of Sara Crewe is one of both sadness and perseverance.

Happily. Ever. After.

the early bird and the night owl

Think outside the box

In 1971, Mel Stuart offered Wilder the lead role in his film adaptation of Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. Wilder was initially hesitant, but finally accepted the role under one condition:

When I make my first enterance, I'd like to come out of the door carrying a cane and then walk toward the crowd with a limp. After the crowd sees Willy Wonka is a cripple, they all whisper to themselves and then become deathly quiet. As I walk toward them, my cane sinks into one of the cobblestones I'm walking on and stands straight up, by itself... but I keep on walking, until I realise that I no longer have my cane. I start to fall forward, and just beore I hit the ground, I do a beautiful forward somersault and bounce back up to great applause.

When Stuart asked why, Wilder replied, "because from that time on, no one will know if I'm lying or telling the truth.

(Source: wikipedia)

Q&A

How old will you be in 14 months?

21 years old.


You're at a party and the person you first fell hardest for is there, what do you do?

I wouldn't really have anything to say, unless spoken to.


Who do you like?

Naiine

Do you want to get married & have children one day?

That'd be nice.


Do you judge people you don't know?

I try not to.

What are you listening to?

My mama yacking.


Were you single on your last birthday?

Yeah boi.


Everything happens for a reason, right?

Yeah, that reason being decisions people make.


Does seeing couples in love make you mad?

Not at all, but a little envious I guess.

What is the next thing you will probably buy?

The original Time Machine on DVD, another DVD, and a new skirt.


Do you think girls deserve more respect?

Respect must be earned - by boys and girls.


Explain your relationship status...

I am single, therefore not in a relationship at the moment. What more explanation is needed?


How much longer do you think you'll live with your parents?

a  few more months and I'm gone!

Do you have any bruises?

Nope.

Is there one person that no matter what, you argue with them everyday about something dumb?
Naaah.

Do you know anyone who would just drop everything to come see you?

Gosh, I duno.


Do you have to do laundry?

It's in the tumble drier.

What's on your bedroom floor right now?

Just my straighteners.


Is there a girl that you would do absolutely everything for?

There's a few.


Can you go a day without music?

Not these days, I need it for my commute.


Were you anyone's first kiss?

Errr I think so.

Can guys and girls be friends without trying to make it more?

For sure, but it tends to get ruined if feelings do develop.

Has anyone of the opposite sex hurt you emotionally?

Yes.


What was your last thought last night before you went to bed?

I am SO tired right now.


What is the last thing you got in trouble for with your parents?

Sitting on the floor and staring at the carpet, being really anti-social. Hehehe.

Do you find it cute when boys/girls call you cute names?

Define cute names for a start...

How many texts are in your inbox?

I have 107 different threads in my inbox...

When did your last hug take place? Who?

Julie hugged me today at work.

Who took your profile picture?

I did.


What woke you up this morning?

My alarm, at 6am - yay.

Which do you prefer - eyes or lips?

Eyes for attraction, lips for kissing ;)

Ever had your heart broken?

Beaten and bruised I guess. The beauty of bruises = they heal.


Do looks matter to you in a guy/girl?

To an extent.

Does it take a lot to make you cry?

It never used to, moreso now though.

Would you rather be stuck in the pouring rain, or in a snowstorm?

Snow!

Would you rather be able to jump into love, or out of love?

If it was with the right person - into. I love love.

Would you rather cry in public or make someone else cry in public?

I would never want to make someone else cry.

Would you rather sleep for 3 days, or stay awake for 3 days?

Sleep, lack of sleep is soul destroying.

How many hours of sleep did you get last night?

6ish.

Do you have a best friend?

I have a couple.

What is a food/drink that you'd hate to be allergic to?

Cheese (cheesy pasta, pizza, cheese on toast, cheese sandwiches, cheese doritos. CHEESE) and milk.

Would you prefer to date someone taller, shorter, or the same height as you?

Taller, ah shorter would be too teeny for lil' old me.

When was the last time your nose bled?

Ages ago.

Swimming pool or hot tub?

TUB.

Can you swim well?

I can swim reasonably.

What body part do you wash first in the shower?

Well my hair, so my head...

Who would you allow to read your thoughts for one day?

Oh noone, I couldn't no no no.

Name your last reason for using a camera?

To take drunken club toilet photos.

Did you enjoy your weekend?

The part spent with Sam was aces!

Is there anybody you wish you could see?

Suuuuuure.

Shut me up

Q&A

Has anyone told you “forever and ever” then left?
Yes, they have.

Your relationship status?
Free as a bird.

Where did you meet your crush(es)?
I've not had a crush for a while. When I'm 'out' is usually a good start.

Have you ever lost a close friend?
I have, a very close friend.

Do you smoke weed regularly?
I do not.

Think back to the beginning of 2011. Are you still dating the same person?
Nope.

Would you parents be mad if you were in a relationship?
Of course not, they'd be happy for me.

When was the last time you really laughed?
Friends with Benefits was pretty funny!

Something is wrong. First guy you turn too?
It depends what that "something" is...

First girl you’d turn to?
Again, it depends what it's with regards to.

Is there anyone who doesn’t like you because of something you did?
Probably thanks to heresay, but as far as I'm aware no.

Angry at anyone?
I'm just disappointed in them.

What’s stopping you from going for the person you like?
I don't like anyone.

When was the last time you cried really hard?
Really hard? Probably in Tenerife haha... Lavvvvely.

Is there anyone you would do anything for?
Yes.

Who was the last person you talked to for more than 10 minutes on the phone?
My gran I think.

What is your favorite song?
I can't pin that to one!

Do you like Red Bull?
I do indeed.

How many people can you tell just about everything to?
A handful.

Have you ever wished on a shooting star?
I've seen them, but no.

Does the last person you held hands with mean something to you?
I can't remember who that was.

Do you have anything that belongs to your ex?
Yes I do. Although I've just thrown something out because it's no longer my responsibility what happens if someone else were to get their hands on it. I held onto it for too long anyway.

Can you honestly say you’ve had a sleepover with the opposite gender?
Yes, I have.

Do you rebound?
I guess so.

Ever cheated on someone?
No.

What would you do if you found out the person you like was in a relationship?
Sulk for about 20 seconds then realise that's life.

Do you act differently around the person you like?
I couldn't tell you.

Honestly, what guy’s number do you have memorized?
None.

Is it hard to make you laugh?
Not really, I giggle at the strangest things.

Who was the last person to make you mad?
I'm not willing to say, I'm past it now anyway.

Do you think your last ex will eventually want to be with you again?
Never.

Have you ever fallen asleep in someone’s arms?
I have!

Has anyone ever called you scrumptious before?
Lolol, no!

Would you like to put a night on repeat and live it forever?
Yes and no, it was a lovely night for so long, but now it's a memory I'll lock in a box.

Do you have a best friend that knows you inside and out?
I have a best friend who knows exactly how odd I am, and how little I think before I act ;)

Is your best friend a slut?
ZZZZOMG yes!.......

Is hard drugs a turn off?
Yes, everything about it - awful.

Are you happy with life right now?
Getting there!

Are you still in love with your ex?
I'll always care about him, but that in no way means I'm in love with him.

Have you ever been the “other person” in a relationship?
No.

Have you ever had your heart broken?
Beaten a little out of shape, but it's still ticking away.

Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
Fat chance.

Is there anybody you’re really disappointed in?
Yes.

Where is your best friend?
Not sure soz.

Something you’re happy about?
Finally getting organised.

How is your heart lately?
Live and kickin'

I'd love to be that someone you can rely on when skies are grey and life is cruel. For us to share our deepest and darkest secrets as we nestle under a blanket during the harsh winter months. I'd love to travel places - not even particularly far away - and see sights with you as my company. To experience the excitement that flourishes when we hold hands, when your name appears on my phone screen, or we whisper "I love you" to one another.

I'd love nothing more than to be all of those things to you, and to spend the rest of my days striving to be even more.

but who are you?

Try and stop me!

Appreciate the simple things in life

6,470,818,671

"At this moment, there are six billion, four hundred and seventy one million, eight hundred and eighteen thousand, six hundred and seventy one people in the world. Some are running scared, some are coming home, some tell lies to make it through the day. Others are just now facing the truth. Some are evil men at war with good, and some are good struggling with evil. Six billion people in the world, six billion souls, and sometimes, all you need is one"

Go on, take me by surprise...

Never forgotten

So very true

a victim's story

To bully another human being is a most cruel and destructive form of behaviour. When you bully a person you not only destroy their self worth, but also their confidence and in extreme cases they can begin to question their existance. By making the decision to bully another you are choosing to inflict that person with negative emotions such as distress, misery and loneliness; and believe that your behaviour is appropriate. Acceptance is difficult enough to come by these days, and by bullying another you are denying that person the opportunity to position themself comfortably within society, instead forcing them into somewhere they do not desire to be. Bullying is a glorification of evil, and those who do so should be ashamed to walk on the same pavement as the rest of us. Positivity can only be found in those who conquer their demons and rise above the intimidation.

While the link I've posted is to a teenage drama and is therefore fiction, I feel that it depicts a very real and frightening representation of the tragedy that can be caused as a result of a victim's suffering.

Sometimes, to admit you're afraid is okay

Love is an extremely delicate emotion, and eternal devotion to another is an expression of fondness that is rarely found in today's society. To feel loved is to feel worthy; worthy of impacting on another person's life in a multitude of positive ways. Love can be expressed through words or actions, and neither is less valuable than the other. Never be afraid to love, for the rewards greatly outweigh the conflicts.

Always love, because life is too short for such a powerful and enchanting emotion to go to waste.